Journalist Ilona Lea Kotková from the online magazine Žena Aktuálně tried a couples’ tantric massage at our center. In her article, she shares what she experienced during the session and how deeply the massage impressed her.
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Tantra — Pleasure in Its Purest Form
Sexuality is an inseparable part of human existence, even though attitudes toward it and the perception of the body often differ dramatically. Tantra explores sensuality and the experience of sexuality in a ritual and conscious way. Are you curious how such a massage works and what you might experience? Read on I’ll gladly share my story.
How Tantra Works
Tantric, or holistic, massage differs from the classical one in its approach. It doesn’t divide the body into “intimate” and “neutral” zones it perceives it as one integrated whole. The masseur or masseuse approaches the tantric ritual with deep respect, carefully attuning to the readiness and comfort of the receiver.
Tantra works with the primal creative force sexual energy. When handled consciously and with awareness, this energy has the potential to transform what is blocked into something whole and vibrant. It becomes a guide on the path of self-discovery.
The Beginning of My Journey
Driven by curiosity, I bought my husband a tantric couples massage for his birthday secretly hoping he’d invite me to join. He did not disappoint.
The salon where our session took place looked discreet from the outside but welcoming. Behind a solid door, a gentle aroma drifted through a dimly lit hallway. We were greeted by a smiling therapist and led into a cozy room decorated with candles, flowers, and a Buddha statue a tranquil, sacred space that felt far removed from the outside world.
The Ritual of Trust
The experience began with a ritual to build trust. Standing opposite our respective therapists, we focused on deep breathing inhaling and exhaling through the mouth gradually letting go of tension. My masseur, Jakub, approached me with tenderness and quiet respect, guiding me to relax completely. Within minutes, I felt safe, open, and fully present.
A Sensual Massage of Body and Soul
Once Jakub sensed I was ready, he gently untied my sarong, covering me with a silk cloth and beginning the massage. His movements alternated between warm towels, soft feathers, aromatic oil, and delicate fingertips. He moved slowly from my head and shoulders down to my thighs, his touch awakening every part of me.
There was no awkwardness, only peace and pleasure the simple joy of being touched with reverence. As the massage deepened, I felt the energy rise within me, my awareness expanding beyond physical sensation into something sacred and transformative.
A Temple of Pleasure and Presence
The massage was long, beautiful, and deeply moving a journey of surrender, bliss, and connection. My body became a temple of pleasure, and I felt completely present within it. Time dissolved. What remained was pure being, pure feeling.
Words are clumsy when describing such an experience. The state of tantric union of returning to oneself through touch, breath, and awareness is something that can only be lived, not told.
Written by: Ilona Lea Kotková
Founder of Tantra masáže Praha s.r.o., psychotherapist, manager, lecturer of tantra and personal development groups, coach, yoga and holistic bodywork lecturer, massage therapist (10 years of practice), author of the "Inner wave" therapeutic tantric massage technique, massage lecturer.
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